We have got ourselves in one big pickle haven’t we? We go in circles countlessly…
As I was worshiping I noticed a theme in my words. The theme of purpose. I remember it o so well, the time in my life where purpose always seemed to evade me. Why couldn’t I just accept the way everyone told me to go… Well, there really wasn’t many who told me where to go, but through their actions and reactions to my own ideas and suggestions I would, in a round about way, know what direction would satisfy their ideas. I mean what did I know… All I knew was what I like to do. All I knew was some of the things I was fairly good at. Apparently you get to an age where life is to all the sudden get really important and every life direction will mean either complete poverty or right riches. Apparently life is supposed to be really hard or else you are not working hard enough. Apparently life at a certain point is supposed to be something you don’t even really want to live anymore, but because you have a certain standard set you must press on to meet that standard. If you don’t make that standard it seems the only options will be that your spouse will leave you, you will have it hard, your house will fall apart, your children wont get everything you want, you wont be what you need to be… Now to much extent that is true. If your standard is what you value above everything else (standard being how life should look and be in your mind) then when you don’t get your way your life will fall apart. For all your hope is in something you have made up in your head. You’ve done everything… You made the plan… you made the job… you made the money… you got the wife… you got the right size car, house, yard, muscles, you name it… When those all align, life is right… right? Life is good once your ideas finally line up with reality? I wonder what would happen if you asked all those whose ideas in their head lined up with reality what they would say about life being right. It never seems to be that way in my experience. It seems you can look to any age, any wealth, any position, any job, and people will want more in some way shape or form. Yet, looking back to the source, where did this standard come from? What does this standard really mean? Who made it… and what will it actually accomplish? Who says you need to save your whole life so you could reach a certain point and never have to rely on anyone for help? Who said that if you don’t have a certain standing by a certain point that you wont succeed? Who said this whole life was to be about gaining things for yourself so you could “have it easy…?” Who even told you that ease/right living would be found in having much, having retirement, having a house, having a car, having the right job, having x amount of kids?
Is this something God has said?
Is God sitting there telling you, “if you don’t get this amount of money I can’t use you?” “If you don’t have this amount of comfort you will be too stressed for me to muster anything up in your life…” “If you don’t get set on the right path I will never be gracious to you and give you what I actually promise…” I wonder if it is God who has set this standard…
It strikes me as rather funny how so many people desire for peace and relaxation. People desire a life of joy. People desire a life with purpose… yet they keep choosing the path that does not bring that. This is God’s promise from his Holy Spirit, “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” Now a promise is interesting… especially when God makes it. Because if God makes it then you know it is true… always… for he cannot lie… So if you are not experiencing any amount of those fruits then does that make God a lair? Or is it something on your part? Are you living with his Spirit? Are you following his Spirit? Or have you followed something else? Have you began to follow something else because your standard wasn’t being met through the Holy Spirit’s provision… Have you sold your soul’s contentment for the sake of following that standard? Have you sold out your soul to money so you could get that standard? Have you sold your convictions to comfort so you could get a better position that pays more even though it took messy situations? People give up the Lord’s promised fruits so they can meet that standard that the Lord has not promised. The Lord has not promised a nice house, a wife, kids, a car, a good life, a comfortable life, a 9 – 5 job… But he has promised peace… Do you have peace… So what have you sold your soul for? Have you sold it so you can pridefully get those things you think you need because everyone else around you has them? Have you sold your peace so you could be better than those around you?
The Lord graciously gives… But you also can pridefully take. It’s the benefits of free will… So which will you choose? Will you choose to continue to press harder and harder so you can meet that standard that was made up by a concoction of your pride and the culture around you? Or will you humble yourself under God’s mighty hand so he may lift you up in due time? The Lord will give you what you need… He guarantees it. But have you let go of it all and let the Holy Spirit’s peace lead your life. For where you have no peace… the Lord has something to say. For where you have no joy… the Lord has a promise to offer you. All it takes is humility to wait upon him and your life will never be the same. Keep pushing in pride and you will fall, if not in this life then when you see him face to face in his throne room as he is asking you, “What did you do with what I gave you…”
I write this not because I am trying to be some young hot-shot who is trying to be a rebel to society. I’m not trying to make you think like me so I can get more people on this blog. I’m not trying to pull you into my ideas… But out of love I desire for you to know the peace the Lord offers. I myself fall from it in many occasions. But from each fall I find myself closer to leaning on his provision and guidance. With each fall I put my hand up in humility for him to pick me up and he has answered every time. I want you to know the same joy that I have found. I have no agenda for the Lord takes care of everything I will ever need.
I hope I can encourage you…
Blessings!